Dear Mr. President,
Thank you for executing the order to capture and kill Osama Bin Ladin. From what I have read, it was a brave decision. I felt a lot more peace yesterday as we remembered the victims and heros of 9/11 knowing bin Ladin is dead.
Please tell the Navy Seals and others involved that every American is grateful for their sacrifice.
Thanks,
KGR
Monday, September 12, 2011
Fostering Entitlement? Really?
Dear Mr. President,
Sometimes I find myself just shaking my head at what is happening with our economic problems. I'm not talking about what is happening on Wall Street, I'm talking about what is happening inside homes and families across America. Today I received a phone call from my cousin. She spent the entire 15 minutes on the phone lamenting about how the government isn't pay for certain things. I happen to know her husband makes about 45K a year. I know that isn't going to put them in the Ritz for their family vacation, but it should allow them some self-reliance, right?? Apparently not in her mind. She said she has an appointment today for WIC and is going to lie about their eligibility. Her husband just got a $50/month raise and this puts them above the income guidelines for WIC. I'm afraid the government systems that are in place to provide help and aid are really fostering entitlement rather than self reliance. Instead of looking at her husband's $50/month raise as an opportunity for them to stop needing WIC assistance, she sees it as a detriment because now they no longer qualify for WIC. She told me her husband has other opportunities to "move up the chain" in his company, but he has declined such advancements because it would make them ineligible for things like Medicaid, WIC, and Social Security Disability for their son. So, instead, they are stuck in an endless cycle of government reliance, which has created entitlement at it's best. Today, in her rant against government programs, she was upset because the government will not pay their utility bills. It is hot where we live and their electricity bill was $300, double what is usual during other months of the year. Part of the reason their electricity bill is so high is because their son uses an oxygen concentrator...and obviously it sucks a lot of energy. I don't want to sound unemphatic to their situation. I think it would be so difficult to have a child with a disability. The part that is concerning for me is the expectation the government should provide aid in every aspect of their lives because of the family situation. When I questioned her about it, "Do you really think the government should be responsible?" She, of course, became quite defensive. Defensive because she is living on a foundation of entitlement, and entitlement tells you that nothing is your responsibility, it is always someone else's fault. From experience, I have seen entitlement encourages depression, anxiety and decreased sense of self. On the other hand, I have seen self-reliance promotes confidence, happiness and advancement.
Please Mr. President, create programs that encourage self-reliance and stop fostering entitlement.
Thanks,
KGR
Sometimes I find myself just shaking my head at what is happening with our economic problems. I'm not talking about what is happening on Wall Street, I'm talking about what is happening inside homes and families across America. Today I received a phone call from my cousin. She spent the entire 15 minutes on the phone lamenting about how the government isn't pay for certain things. I happen to know her husband makes about 45K a year. I know that isn't going to put them in the Ritz for their family vacation, but it should allow them some self-reliance, right?? Apparently not in her mind. She said she has an appointment today for WIC and is going to lie about their eligibility. Her husband just got a $50/month raise and this puts them above the income guidelines for WIC. I'm afraid the government systems that are in place to provide help and aid are really fostering entitlement rather than self reliance. Instead of looking at her husband's $50/month raise as an opportunity for them to stop needing WIC assistance, she sees it as a detriment because now they no longer qualify for WIC. She told me her husband has other opportunities to "move up the chain" in his company, but he has declined such advancements because it would make them ineligible for things like Medicaid, WIC, and Social Security Disability for their son. So, instead, they are stuck in an endless cycle of government reliance, which has created entitlement at it's best. Today, in her rant against government programs, she was upset because the government will not pay their utility bills. It is hot where we live and their electricity bill was $300, double what is usual during other months of the year. Part of the reason their electricity bill is so high is because their son uses an oxygen concentrator...and obviously it sucks a lot of energy. I don't want to sound unemphatic to their situation. I think it would be so difficult to have a child with a disability. The part that is concerning for me is the expectation the government should provide aid in every aspect of their lives because of the family situation. When I questioned her about it, "Do you really think the government should be responsible?" She, of course, became quite defensive. Defensive because she is living on a foundation of entitlement, and entitlement tells you that nothing is your responsibility, it is always someone else's fault. From experience, I have seen entitlement encourages depression, anxiety and decreased sense of self. On the other hand, I have seen self-reliance promotes confidence, happiness and advancement.
Please Mr. President, create programs that encourage self-reliance and stop fostering entitlement.
Thanks,
KGR
Wednesday, August 18, 2010
What about a little self reliance?
Dear Mr. President,
Yesterday a doctor ordered a social work consult for a young woman who insisted on being admitted to the hospital. She was single and 34 weeks pregnant. I visited with her and inquired about her concerns. She shrugged and explained the baby's father is now in Mexico, she is unemployed, missed her WIC appointment, and lacks the basic necessities (like crib sheets) for her baby. Her mom sat in the corner and complained that, "the government wants her to work. How can she possibly work when she is pregnant and uncomfortable? But now, the government won't help her. She needs a girdle and crib sheets. What is she supposed to do?"
I bit my tongue and held back my words. I wanted to tell her I worked until I was 36 weeks pregnant with twins. For the last 3 weeks of my pregnancy, the only shoes that fit my swolen feet were my husband's flip flops. In fact the day my twins were born, I worked from 8 a.m. to 11:30 a.m. and then had an emergency c-section at 2:20 p.m.
Please Mr. President, don't encourage dependence on government aid. Create programs that foster independence and self-reliance.
Thank you,
KGR
Yesterday a doctor ordered a social work consult for a young woman who insisted on being admitted to the hospital. She was single and 34 weeks pregnant. I visited with her and inquired about her concerns. She shrugged and explained the baby's father is now in Mexico, she is unemployed, missed her WIC appointment, and lacks the basic necessities (like crib sheets) for her baby. Her mom sat in the corner and complained that, "the government wants her to work. How can she possibly work when she is pregnant and uncomfortable? But now, the government won't help her. She needs a girdle and crib sheets. What is she supposed to do?"
I bit my tongue and held back my words. I wanted to tell her I worked until I was 36 weeks pregnant with twins. For the last 3 weeks of my pregnancy, the only shoes that fit my swolen feet were my husband's flip flops. In fact the day my twins were born, I worked from 8 a.m. to 11:30 a.m. and then had an emergency c-section at 2:20 p.m.
Please Mr. President, don't encourage dependence on government aid. Create programs that foster independence and self-reliance.
Thank you,
KGR
A plea from a working mom
Dear Mr. President,
I am a part-time working mom. When my twins were born 9 months ago, I went from working full-time to part-time. My husband is self-employed and I carry the insurance benefits through my employer. I figured out if I work 8 hrs and 23 minutes, it rounds up to 8 hrs and 30 minutes. That is the exact time I need to work to maintain my health insurance benefits. If I work 8 hrs and 22 minutes, it rounds my time down to 8 hrs and 15 minutes and then I could be in trouble with my benefits eligibility. Every day when I arrive, I add 8 hrs and 23 minutes to my clock in time. I have also educated my coworkers to the same philosophy and way to "beat the clock". I know it is only 7 minutes difference, but it just more time away from my family. I really miss my children when I'm at work and I've often thought of ways I can cut back my work hours or quit all together.
My husband and I decided it was time for me to cut back my working hours and be home with my children more. This meant we needed individual health insurance. I called an insurance broker and was taken back by the cost and limitations of individual health insurance. The monthly premium for our family of 4 is around $400 and this is for a high deductible plan. The maternity deductible is $7,500, a separate and additional amount to the medical deductible! I asked the insurance broker if I created a group of other self-employed families, if we would be eligible for a group insurance plan. She politely told me, "No, the insurance is linked to your employer. You have to be an employee of an organization to be eligible for group health insurance." I couldn't believe it! What about following the American Dream? Creating your own path and success in life? I guess if you want to pursue the American Dream in the year 2010, you have to do it without health insurance.
Needless to say, I am still working 8 hrs and 23 minutes a day so we can maintain our health insurance benefits. Please Mr. President, consider divorcing health insurance benefits from employment status. (Afterall, car insurance is not linked to your employment...and it seems to work out just fine).
Thank you,
KGR
I am a part-time working mom. When my twins were born 9 months ago, I went from working full-time to part-time. My husband is self-employed and I carry the insurance benefits through my employer. I figured out if I work 8 hrs and 23 minutes, it rounds up to 8 hrs and 30 minutes. That is the exact time I need to work to maintain my health insurance benefits. If I work 8 hrs and 22 minutes, it rounds my time down to 8 hrs and 15 minutes and then I could be in trouble with my benefits eligibility. Every day when I arrive, I add 8 hrs and 23 minutes to my clock in time. I have also educated my coworkers to the same philosophy and way to "beat the clock". I know it is only 7 minutes difference, but it just more time away from my family. I really miss my children when I'm at work and I've often thought of ways I can cut back my work hours or quit all together.
My husband and I decided it was time for me to cut back my working hours and be home with my children more. This meant we needed individual health insurance. I called an insurance broker and was taken back by the cost and limitations of individual health insurance. The monthly premium for our family of 4 is around $400 and this is for a high deductible plan. The maternity deductible is $7,500, a separate and additional amount to the medical deductible! I asked the insurance broker if I created a group of other self-employed families, if we would be eligible for a group insurance plan. She politely told me, "No, the insurance is linked to your employer. You have to be an employee of an organization to be eligible for group health insurance." I couldn't believe it! What about following the American Dream? Creating your own path and success in life? I guess if you want to pursue the American Dream in the year 2010, you have to do it without health insurance.
Needless to say, I am still working 8 hrs and 23 minutes a day so we can maintain our health insurance benefits. Please Mr. President, consider divorcing health insurance benefits from employment status. (Afterall, car insurance is not linked to your employment...and it seems to work out just fine).
Thank you,
KGR
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